On 11 Jun 1810 when Freelove was 81, she second married Benjamin Dillingham
, son of John Dillingham (-bef 6 Nov 1750) & Esther Paul (ca 1701-19 Oct 1781), in New Bedford, MA.297 Born on 3 Feb 1739 in Taunton, MA. Benjamin died ca 1826 in New Bedford, MA.
Benjamin first married Anna Hathaway, second Freelove (Potter) Hathaway, widow of Caleb Hathaway.
Benjamin’s will, dated 25 Jun 1821, probated 25 Jul 1826, mentioned his wife Freelove daughters Nabby Hawes, Esther Crandon, Priscilla Kempton, and Hannah Terry; sons Paul, Benjamin, Lemuel, Edward, and Asa; and granddaughter Clarissa Hawes. Inventory 12 Aug 1826.