On 18 Mar 1756 Phebe married Nathaniel Waite, son of Nathaniel Waite (27 May 1667-ca 1714) & Elizabeth Lynde (ca 1680-1 Apr 1734), in Leicester, MA. Born on 5 Nov 1701 in Malden, MA. Nathaniel died in Leicester, MA, on 29 Dec 1791; he was 90.

Nathaniel first married Mary Richarson, second Hannah Southgate, and third Phebe Reed.