On 14 May 1770 when Abner was 21, he first married Elizabeth Glazier (55140) , daughter of Joseph Glazier (39421) (17 Mar 1719-27 Aug 1777) & Eunice Newton (5 Feb 1730-24 Apr 1786), in Westminster, MA. Born ca 1750. Elizabeth died in Westminster, MA on 3 Apr 1778.

On 22 Apr 1779 when Abner was 30, he second married Levinah Glazier (55141) , daughter of Joseph Glazier (39421) (17 Mar 1719-27 Aug 1777) & Eunice Newton (5 Feb 1730-24 Apr 1786), in Westminster, MA. Born on 9 May 1752 in Westminster, MA. Levinah died in Westminster, MA, on 23 Jul 1838; she was 86.