On 13 Oct 1777 when Ebenezer was 20, he married Patience Jacobs (54407) , daughter of Stephen Jacobs (2 Dec 1710-1758) & Hannah Dayton (38219) (4 Aug 1718-), in Congregational Society, North Haven.55 Born on 18 Aug 1757 in New Haven, CT.56 Patience died in Litchfield, CT, on 30 Dec 1824; she was 67.55