On 28 Feb 1784 when Ebenezer was 20, he married Lois Northam (52971) , daughter of Jonathan Northam (36288) (29 Aug 1725-8 Aug 1807) & Anna McWilliams (ca 1734-25 Oct 1826), in Colchester, CT. Born on 4 Feb 1763 in Colchester, CT.418 Lois died on 30 Jul 1836; she was 73.